“正面管教”让亲子关系更亲密 "Positive Discipline"Enhance Family Relationship

效能四步骤

Four Steps

孩子所谓的不良行为，其实大部分是由于缺乏知识、意识和技能造成的，父母要做的，是去了解孩子的发展规律，细心观察和耐心陪伴，并提供合适的玩乐和学习环境。但是当孩子出现过度关注、寻求权利、报复、自暴自弃等抱有错误目的的行为时，家长就需要重视和纠正，解码他们行为背后的目的，教会孩子用一种更能有建设性的行为来建立信心，获得归属感和价值感。

孩子需要你的适当引导，才能学会什么是可以做和不可以做的；你的认可和鼓励，能帮助他自我肯定，建立安全感。

Most of the so-called bad behaviors of children are caused by lack of knowledge, awareness and skills。What parents need to do is to understand the child's development rules , observe carefully and be patient with them, and provide a suitable environment for playing and learning。But when the child behaves with the wrong purpose, such as excessive attention, seeking rights, retaliation, self-abandonment, etc. Parents need to pay attention to and correct it, decode the purpose behind their behavior, teach children to build confidence with more constructive behavior  and gain a sense of belonging and value.

With positive guidance, mutual respect, and encouragement,

Children are much more motivated to learn and behave.